How can we make decisions easier?

How can we make decisions easier?

Especially in “either or” situations, it is often difficult for us to make a decision – but not making a decision usually leads to frustration. One way out of this dilemma is a little trick, the so-called “tetralemma” – here is a little example from my...
On my own behalf

On my own behalf

Before we get back to decision tools, let me briefly touch on the result of a decision I made 18 month ago – yesterday I received the result:  My final degree is recognized by the German Federal Coaching Association (DBVC) and got additionally certified by the...
How do we become charismatic?

How do we become charismatic?

Some people can pull an audience or just their counterpart completely under their spell, but how do they do that? Short answer: They are charismatic, but were not born as a charismatic and can often consciously switch this quality “on and off”! The essential “trick”...
How can we change others?

How can we change others?

Short answer: not really at all. We already find it difficult to develop own new habits by constantly practicing small steps. Admittedly, taking others as they are is not always easy – especially if the 4 techniques for changing behavior did not lead to the...
Resolving conflicts with 3 perspectives

Resolving conflicts with 3 perspectives

Changes in perspective support us, as shown last week, not only in making decisions, they are also valuable when it comes to releasing blockages in conflict situations. For this purpose one could, for example, place 3 moderation cards on the floor: A: Own perspective...